Since I spent most of the summer months running all over the place and being a busy little bee, I thought I would sit down and take a few moments to reflect on the past few months and some of the high points. This is something that's H A R D for me to do. When things are positive, I tend to move on from them quickly and rarely take time to sit and think back. So I'm trying to change that behavior a little bit and share some of my highlights from the summer.
If I'm being honest, this summer felt like a giant blur. A mix of traveling, work, friends in town, weddings, moving, not moving, trying to get enough sleep, and a lot of humidity. But it also was filled with many of my favorite things (and people). I also took a giant hiatus from blogging, which was semi-intentional with how busy I had been. Blogging for me is a hobby, something I enjoy doing, and when it starts to feel like another chore I try and take a break. Also, I create most of my recipes and content on the weekends which makes it hard when you’re busy.
Like most of the seasons these days, summer felt incredibly slow when I was in the moment but when I reflect back, really flew by. Here are a few highlights from the past couple of months…
Cape Cod. When I think back on it, I'm so thankful for this trip. It came at a time when things were feeling incredibly overwhelming for me personally & professional and to be able to jump in the car and drive away was a dream, especially since G and a travel buddy planned most of the trip for us. We spent a few nights in Salem, MA, then drove to Provincetown for a few nights, and ended at a friend's home outside of Cape Cod. The whole trip was super relaxed, we were able to escape the philly heat for a few days, and just filled with a lot of love and friends.
This was also my first time in any of these places and Salem and Provincetown were very quaint and cute. Would definitely recommend them.
House Refresh. Where we live has been quite the topic of conversation this summer. We found out in mid-summer that our current landlord was going to sell our house. We live in an up-and-coming neighborhood in philadelphia so it wasn't a complete surprise, but we tried to approach the situation with positivity. We started looking for houses, looked at a few, people were touring our house (which was extremely annoying tbh), but in the end, they sold the house to an investor who wanted a tenant and we stayed in our home. We negotiated a few improvements to the house (helllllllo garbage disposal!) and decided to make some upgrades yourselves (painting, light fixtures, new towels & shower curtain, minimizing clutter, new kitchen bits, etc.). All in all, it was quite a lot of hubbub but we're happy to save on moving costs 😎
Friends Visiting/Visiting Friends. Some of my favorite memories this summer were made with friends visiting or traveling to see friends in other cities. We spent a weekend driving out to Pittsburg to hang with friends, play board games, and swim in our fav wave pool. On top of that, we had a handful of buds stay in our spare bedroom, which gave me an opportunity to share my favorite city, eat all the best food it has to offer, and catch up while sitting on my own sofa.
Girl Time. Adult friendships are hard, my friend. And as someone who has never had a large group of tight girlfriends, I’m always incredibly thankful for the time my friends and I carve out for one another. I feel so grateful to have found my people, even if it’s not a huge dang group of them.
Highlights this summer were our weekend away in the Catskills, venturing out of the city to the airplane pool, and a handful of happy hours, dinner dates, and ice cream meetups.
Emerging From the Fog. The biggest change that happened this summer was emerging from the fog of anxiety and depression that I found myself in for most of the beginning of the year. It's uncomfortable for me to talk about—both because mental illness is a vulnerable topic and because I don't like to bring a lot of negativity to my digital life—but it feels a little like a victory to me. It’s difficult for me to figure out what caused this change (therapy, self care, changes in attitude, work, personal growth, probably a giant mix of all of those things) but I’m just thankful to be on the other side. Every day isn’t great and honestly, some days and weeks it’s still pretty unpleasant, but I’m able to see through the fog and that feels incredibly huge to me.
Until next time xo